I had a bunch of tabs open on the subject, but this seemed fairly comprehensive so I jsut linked the one - I lot of them had the same links in them too.

What about the links that weren't suppose dto take people to ebay etc? (I'll read the link shortly, am musing out loud at the moment)

Why don't you like Dreamwidth? Built off lj code, so same sort of site, same design, less fuckups. I use stalkbook but I use it differnetly to LJ - though I have noticed I'm blogging less, you are right. But I want to maintain a blog as well, and lj's attitude is getting increasingly ofensive.